On March 2 our son goes to court for his sentencing on theft charges. He has been in jail since he violated house arrest rules by using again about one month ago.
I am struggling with whether to go to court to view his sentencing or not. On one hand I detest what he does. Not just the drug abuse but the stealing to support his habit is against everything he was ever taught. On the other hand, holding out hope that each time could be the time he decides to clean up his act I want to be there in case he asks for help and is serious. Even though in court they cannot talk or make any gestures to spectators.
No matter if he gets more time or probation it is not likely he is going he is going to get out because I know two other jurisdictions have warrants for him and he may likely be bound over for them and transported there.
Is going to his sentencing construed as support for him and even condoning his actions? We do not visit him while he is in jail. Mom takes his calls when he calls from jail.