I said he was to be homeless if he continued to use.
I believe my son is using again. Mom says he is probably using. If you read my last post you would think he should be gone but Mom and I are not seeing eye to eye on this.
Mom wants him to stay here to see what happens on Thursday and to see if he gets into The Center. We were both in agreement that he could not use here but he has manipulated her again. He is playing the needy son card again. She doesn't want him to leave she feels he will just go on the street and not make it to court on Thursday and get the judge to send him to The Center. Then he will never get better. I feel this is his responsibility and it is time for us to back out. When I ask her what we do if he doesn't get into The Center she doesn't respond.
I don't know how we are going to make it to Thursday. She has lost her set of keys to my truck. He has taken them before and I think he has them again so the truck is not leaving my sight. This morning her purse had been dumped, she is blaming herself. Last night she took him to a AA meeting. She was going to wait, dropped him off, saw him enter and she sat there for a while and decided to drive down the street to Dairy Queen for an ice cream. When she got back she saw him and another male walking down the street while he was suppose to be inside the meeting and when he saw her he ducked and went around the other building, the other male took off the other way. I'm sure there must be a back way out he used. How much more does she need to do what needs to happen?
I am at that point I ignore him and ask nothing from him because I know he will just lie. I cannot throw him out against her wishes. Until the light comes on for her, this is our life.