___________ You will come clean on all activities that has occurred in our home.
___________ You will turn over every paycheck to dad and money will be allotted to you based upon a predetermined budget.
___________ You will supply a list of your dealers along with phone numbers and addresses, which will be turned over to law enforcement.
___________ No driving will be allowed until a letter from the state of Kansas certifying your license has been re-instated.
___________ No alcohol of any type will be consumed at any time.
___________ No drugs of any kind, including marijuana will be used at any time.
___________ You will attend and participate in family counseling with Dad, Mom and any other family members that is required or wants to attend.
___________ You will begin an active recovery program. (simply “not using” is not sufficient)
___________ An active job search for a second job will take place and a second job will be used to pay all debts.
___________ You are not allowed any contact with, (names omitted but specifically name every person we know he did drugs with) or any other known or unknown active addict, dealer or users.
___________ There will be no stealing or “borrowing without permission” from any person, home or commercial establishment.
___________ Monday through Friday the doors to our home will lock at 10:00pm. You shall be in the house before the doors lock unless work schedules require adjustments. Adjustments must be arranged in advance.
___________ No in and out to smoke or anything else after curfew time.
___________ Weekend door schedules shall be set at the discretion of Dad and Mom.
___________ At any time you may be required to produce receipts, signed papers or and other documentation necessary to justify your expenditures or whereabouts.
___________ I understand that violation of this agreement may result in us contacting law enforcement with charges being filed against you for violations of the law.
___________ I have read this agreement understand and agree to abide by each condition that has been listed. Additional conditions may be added at any time at the discretion of (names omitted).
When we got home, the four of us discussed every point on this list and told him the work on some of these points needs to take place over time such as lists but behavior issues begin NOW.
There is no way to know the future. He may or may not have a future but Dad and Mom wish to be have a future and we have realized our current life will not allow us that wish. Changes in us and him have to happen, one way or another. But we have to be able to live with ourselves and with our decisions. Today we feel like another beginning. (been there before but that what hope does to you)