Friday, July 5, 2013

Another 4th of July in the Books

Another 4th has come and gone. There are bittersweet memories because July 4th was my dad's birthday. There are always memories from this day long ago that rise up from so long ago. One of those memories is using my dad's cigarette to light firecrackers.

We had our usual day of blowing things up here on the Grover homestead. No one got hurt which is a good thing. We always have plenty of burn spray and a first aid kit at the ready. Just those statements should tell me that we may need to do something different but I think the friends and family would come here even if we were gone.

Once again we have little ones playing. For a while the kids coming over were older and bigger, now we have little ones again Brooke, Tyler and Owen. Plus there were several other little ones. They played in the water and had plenty of freedom to do whatever they wanted. Tyler ran everywhere, I was with Owen and decided to let him go, he walked and crawled over 200 feet just going as fast has he could. Guess freedom is one of the reasons they all like coming to Grammy's and Papas. But maybe all the cookies, homemade ice cream and Bomb Pops have something to do with it too. It's funny how even the adults want a red, white and blue Bomb Pop on the 4th of July. Everyone is allowed to be as young as they want to be at my house.

No disasters like a few years ago. Recovering From The 4th of July There was even people talking about that year yesterday. Closest we came to it this year was an hour before everyone was to arrive the power went out and a call to Westar Energy resulted in being informed that it could be out 3-6 hours. However, they were able to get it back on just before everyone arrived.

We all have have starts and stops at times when we try to do things. Mom and Alex talked about the new stop smoking commercials on TV. The one were the lady named Terri has to use a machine in her throat to speak spoke to them. Alex has been free of cigarettes for 30 days. My wish is that Tyler never has a memory of using his dad's cigarette to light a firecracker.




6 comments:

Sheri said...

When I lose hope I read your blog and I feel hopeful again. Some day.....

♥●• İzdihër •●♥ said...

hey, my friend..have a good day :)

Syd said...

So good that you remember your dad on his birthday. Sounds like a great time at the farm. We did the picnic at the boat and watched the fire works blast off over the Harbor so close that it was unreal.

Annette said...

He's quit smoking too?! My gosh! He is doing so well! It makes me so happy. I always have said that cigarettes are the least of my worries....of course they are a killer too. Such an awesome post! Thanks Ron.

Her Big Sad said...

Oh that sounds so amazing.... Good for Alex quitting smoking too! So much happy in this post! :)

beachteacher said...

How very wonderful to read this. 🎆🇺🇸. : )