Saturday, April 18, 2015

On Your Mind

I don't know exactly what Darlene is thinking, she is a normally quiet person. It's been a few weeks since we have learned what she must go through. Me, I'm more of a straight forward person.

Despite the prognosis, when a person you have been with for over 40 years is associated with the "C" word it weighs heavily on you. I have a confident belief in the doctors opinions. Even the oncologist says that it was caught very early, the surgery should take care of everything and with what is going to happen there may not even be a need for chemo or radiation. Darlene has been on Tomoxifen for over a year as a preventive measure for breast cancer due to her family history. The doctor says there may be a drug treatment afterwards but we have to wait on the pathology results.

However, there is still that fear in the back of your mind. I have seen what cancer can do just as probably most of us have felt its effects on a loved one.

I must learn to keep everything in perspective and trust my instincts.

I love that gal.

4 comments:

Annette said...

Y'all are in my prayers. Tucked away in my God box. :o) <3

Bristolvol said...

I am praying that all will be ok.

beachteacher said...

Me too Ron-- will keep praying for Darlene

Linda Rogacki said...

I will keep her in my prayers. I am so sorry. That C word is evil