An Addict In Our Son’s Bedroom

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Boundaries

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We went to visit our son in jail on Sunday. I know that I have said we don't visit. That is one of our boundaries. I'll have more t...
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Friday, September 25, 2009

More Hurting Parents

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As we all know the longer we are entangled in this scourge of addiction the wider the web grows. I have found a couple other blogs whose si...
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Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Can't Fix Stupid

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Made someone very happy today. I called them and offered them a job. They were very excited and will begin work on next Monday. At the same ...
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Thursday, September 17, 2009

Peaceful soon-to-be Autumn

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I know autumn doesn't officially get here until next week. It has been quiet on the home front. We are just getting ready for our Fall ...
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Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Good Question

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Last night at dinner, friends posed a very good question. If Alex was a bright rebellious 13 year old again what would you look for and try...
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Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Imposing

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An update, our son is in jail for a probation violation. On good behavior his release would be Nov. 29. If he has troubles he will stay long...
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Thursday, September 3, 2009

KC Readers

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If you are a regular reader of this blog and live in the KC area e-mail me a note, I have something for you. teamplayer@aol.com
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Monday, August 31, 2009

Weekends Can Help To Heal

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We spent the weekend at the lake. We needed the escape. It can be healing to and helpful just to change the scenery. When our son is not in ...
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Friday, August 28, 2009

Right Thing, Wrong Feelings

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It has been a miserable week for me. In my head I know I did the right thing. But it has been a terrible struggle in my heart.
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Tuesday, August 25, 2009

A Tougher Road

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My son just called me from jail. He had a plan. His plan was he had the money to try and bond out and then he would be able to come to work ...
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48 Hours

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48 Hours, that's all it takes for him to drag another crisis into our lives. We return from vacation, relaxed, de -stressed and guess wh...
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Monday, August 24, 2009

We Are Home

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We're back.......... regretfully . First leg of trip. Kinsley, KS It was a wonderful time. We have been to the Rockies many times but s...
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Friday, August 14, 2009

Vacation Time

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We are leaving for Colorado this afternoon as soon as mom gets home from work. I am very excited, like a kid on Christmas Eve I didn't s...
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Thursday, August 13, 2009

Dwelling On Mistakes

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It is the time that everyone with school age children is packing them off to school. An exciting time if they are old enough for college. It...
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Tuesday, August 11, 2009

An Emotional Teeter-Totter

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Up and Down, Up and Down, Up and Down How many metaphors can be used for this roller coaster ride that is officially called "parent of ...
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Wednesday, August 5, 2009

The Scourge

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As I write I am selfish . I write what is in me, I write to make myself feel better, I write to organize my thoughts and I write to re-enfor...
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Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Lifeboats.....again?

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When I first began this blog I wrote about the lifeboats Mom and I had used during this struggle. At that time it seemed like when we boarde...
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Thursday, July 30, 2009

What Is Support?

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It is almost with a nervous anticipation I post this type of question, but I have never been shy or hesitant before. As my son progresse...
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Wednesday, July 29, 2009

The World of CAN and CAN’T

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Last Friday I was discussing with my son our plans for the weekend. We were going to the lake for some rest, relaxation and boating. My so...
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Monday, July 27, 2009

The Same Story

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Here is the address of another parent just beginning a blog about their addicted son. The story is the same as we have all gone through. It ...
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Dad and Mom are parents of 3 and grandparents of three. Our oldest is the manager of Pediatrics at one of the top medical centers in the nation, the middle daughter takes care of our granddaughter and a couple other precious children. Our youngest is troubled with an addiction to drugs but is currently over 2.5 years clear and sober working at a company principally involved in foam and foam fabrication. Our blog is about his addiction and parenting an addict.
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